This just in from IOS reader Natasha Lowery, an American Texan transplant, stay-at-home mom of four enjoying life in London (her husband’s company relocated to the UK). Given all of the recent headlines comparing the French to American parenting, Natasha reached out to In Our Shoes to shed some light on what’s not being talked about in the media – the culture clash on:
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how it feels to be an American parent on British soil.
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Natasha Lowery – True Blooded Texan who speaks her mind:
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‘The British tell us that we have well-behaved children (which has never happened in America!). I can see why, British children are left to rule the roost in church and other places. My husband and I set out parenting much like the French. We didn’t think it was good for our emotional well being to be exhausted because kids were loading into bed with us, making it impossible for us to sleep. The kids were encouraged (still are) to use proper silverware, set a table, engage in conversation, etc.
Since moving here however, we’ve actually lowered our standards, in part because of the culture around us.
Really? Because he threw a knife or punched his sister, that doesn’t require discipline?
my husband and I have become better parents with the Brits’ influence.
Shoe Hostess:
On my last trip to London I was in the company of a couple (the dad was a middle school science teacher) with their two young children. Looking back, I did find them endearing and soft spoken, not a bad example to follow. Thanks Natasha for bravely sharing your story with the universe here @ In Our Shoes – no judgement calls, although I do believe knife throwing in public places is indeed a safety issue requiring proper discipline.
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Americans love the Brits and while there are bound to be differences in parenting styles due to cultural attitudes, it sounds like moms and mums are very much on the same front when compared to the individualistic parenting going down in France. Still, as your Shoe Hostess I’m not here to talk about the French. I’m here to talk about all the shoes which moms and mums wear – yes even when living on foreign soil.
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